Relationships are not really as plain and simple as they should be sometimes. It can get difficult even if you both love each other and want to be with each other. As difficult as that is, being with someone who is not exactly yours to keep is even more exhausting. Being in love or having a relationship with a man who is Married is a very frustrating experience. You don’t quite know whether or not to let yourself be fully into the relationship or just maintain the status quo.
Being in a relationship with a married man is not an easy task. He can promise you the moon and stars but you won’t ever quite feel like you are in it completely. No woman wants to be considered a mistress, it is only normal for you to want more out of the relationship. If truly you both are in love shouldn’t he want to be with you instead of her? It is not selfish of you to want more out of what you currently have with him.
It’s easy to get let yourself get caught up in asking yourself questions that you know you don’t have an answer to. Questions like; would he leave his wife for me? Does he love me enough to leave his wife? Is it possible for a man to Leave his wife? How can a man leave his marriage? …etc. These questions are good but you should not let them weigh heavy on your heart.
The human heart and love are very beautiful phenomenons that are not confided or bound by something as materialistic as a wedding ring. If he truly loves you he will want to be with you no matter the consequences, he will go out of his way for you and make sure he ends up being with you over his wife.
There are various signs you can use to know if truly your love is strong and if truly he would leave his wife for you. These signs would help hon understand the position of things in your relationship and more importantly where the relationship is heading. The signs to know if he loves you enough to leave his wife are numerous but however I have highlighted a select few below:
Signs he loves you enough to leave his wife:
• He Always chooses being with you over her:
This is a clear sign in relation to where you stand in his life. If he goes out of his way to be with you over his wife then he sincerely loves you enough to leave his wife. Him choosing to be with you over his wife in any situation then you can begin to think of the possible future with him.
• He Doesn’t waste time or ignore you when you call:
When you call him to come over or meet up and he responds as fast as possible that is also another sign of his value for you. If he respond to your call in spite of any situation he may be in then he loves you just enough to leave his wife.
• If he Wants to be more public about your relationship:
Him trying to be more public about your relationship is also another vital sign as to whether or not he would leave his wife for you. Him being more public with you; always wanting to go out to public places and going on dates, is clearly a big statement on the future of your relationship with him.
• If he introduces you to his friends and family:
This is a delicate factor in your relationship with him. If he constantly avoids introducing you to his friends and family then he might not just be ready to leave his wife. If you’ve met his family and friends then you are well on your way to having a future with him because that is a clear sign he loves you enough to leave his wife for you.
There are many other signs you can use to know your relationship stance with him, if he truly loves you enough to leave his wife and be with you. These signs will help you know your position and also help you prepare yourself for the possible outcome of him leaving his wife.
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