Relationships can be very tricky. Some days things feel great and other days, it suddenly feels like the relationship is going to end imminently. Sometimes it feels like you are the luckiest person in the world because you have finally found the one you were made for and other days, you find yourself wondering why you ever met him in the first place. This is even harder to deal with when you’re with someone who is in a relationship.
The outcome of such a relationship often leans towards either end of the spectrum; it can either be negative or positive. The difficulty with relationships of this nature is the problem of not knowing where you stand. One day you can be in his arms happily cuddled up and enjoying yourself, then the next minute you have to leave because of his girlfriend. It is a difficult situation to be in.
Being in that situation you start to wonder the possibility of ever being with him totally, would he ever leave his girlfriend and be with you entirely like it should be? Well, what are the chances he would leave his girlfriend? These are the kind of questions that envelope your mind when you’re in a situation like this.
How can you know the possible future of your relationship with him if you don’t even know where you stand currently in his life. There are certain indicators that should be present in your relationship with him in order for you to know if there is a possible future for you with him.
Some of these indicators include:
The nature of the relationship you share with him determines a lot in the possibility of him leaving his girlfriend and being with you. If you have a sex oriented relationship then that is all it will always be, you will be only a thought in relation to sex. If he sees you more than just a sex buddy; someone who he only has sex with on the side, then the chances of him leaving his girlfriend for you are high.
How he treats you in the relationship is very key in knowing where you stand in his life. Is he testing you like a significant other? Are you a priority in his life? Do your wants and need come before his? The answer to these questions are what you can use to understand whether or not he would leave his girlfriend for you. It is always important to know and understand how you’re being treated in a relationship.
Do his friends and family know you? Not just know about you but are they your friends too? Are you being seen as family? These little things are what would determine the chances of him ever leaving his girlfriend for you. It goes beyond being introduced to his friends and family but when they began to have a relationship with you then you can start to dream and aspire to a future of togetherness with him.
Him complaining to you about the issues he is facing in his relationship is a good sign in relation to him leaving her. If he is constantly complaining about her to you then possibly he is tired of the relationship and wants an out. This is a clear indication that the chances of him leaving her are very high.
This is the final blow, this indicator Is the most crucial. If he has mentioned or is constantly talking about leaving his girlfriend then the chances of him doing so are very high. When a man starts to build up tension like this he often goes through with it, you can be rest assured that if he mentions leaving his girlfriend the thought is actively in his head and he will eventually go through with the decision.
These indicators listed above( …but not limited to) are things you should check out for in your relationship with him to know what the chances of him leaving his girlfriend are. You can however influence the occurrence of these indicators and more in your relationship.
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